“Amazing, like all the other vulvas around the world”

“I always thought my vulva looks kinda good, apart from my inner labia. The left one looks perfect for me, but my right labium is longer than my left and sometimes she comes out. I had two boyfriends, my first boyfriend never said anything about it, I think because we were both young and barley talked about sex (we were 16). But my new boyfriend is older than I am (he is 34 and I am 25) and we talk a lot about sex and try things out, so we are very close. He said many times that my vulva is beautiful and "made for him" which makes me happy and less insecure. But sometimes when I am alone, I still find myself wishing that the right labium would be of equal length with the left one. But still, I think my vulva is amazing, like all the other vulvas around the world! We should be more comfortable and think less about it. To be honest, most men do not care at all how they look down under, but we are always overthinking and trying to be "perfect" but we should know that we are already perfect! I hope one day there will not be such overthinking!”

– K, 25 years old, Switzerland (she/her)