"I feel at home"

“I’ve always been insecure about my vulva since I got into puberty and porn. I couldn’t (and sometimes still can’t) find very different types of vulvas in porn – I thought they all looked perfect or at least better than mine. Also I am South Korean, and the beauty standards here are crazy and we’re very conservative, so I couldn’t talk to my parents or friends about this. When I finally became an adult, I immediately looked up for labiaplasty; but instead I found a website talking about The Vulva Gallery, so I checked it up and I was amazed. I am. It made me realize that I’m not alone. I used to be so insecure that I have never been really sexually active, but then I talked to my partner about this thing and I showed them The Vulva Gallery, they reassured me and I felt so much better. It’s lovely to have someone who loves you no matter what, and I feel this also just by scrolling through the comments of every post from The Vulva Gallery. I feel at home, I don’t feel alone or judged. I’m still very insecure about it but I think that this page will help my self confidence and I’m glad I found it!”

– H, 19 years old, South Korea (she/her)