Personally I have struggled with the appearance of my vulva. I've never liked it and have always been extremely self conscious of her. I was always afraid to wear bikini bottoms as a kid due to the fact that my clitoral hood would poke out causing a bulge. It made going to public pools very difficult for me; because the other girls would have nothing showing and have such confidence. Growing older I realized I wasn't the only one. That was really an eye opener for me. I grew confidence and have learned to love my vulva. Some days are hard and I do sometimes wish I could have her perked up. But then I realize what I have is mine and it's always perfect to me.
J. - 22 years old