I’ve always been super ashamed of my vulva. I always thought she was ugly and I feel that watching porn (when I was younger and still to this day) had only exacerbated that notion. My mind was warped by porn about what mine should look like and for a very long time I denied myself the sexual pleasure of oral sex from guys because I was so ashamed and nervous of judgment. Although I should have realised it on my own, when the right guy came along (who I’m still with) he made me feel like a goddess, untouchable, utterly beautiful! He made me feel so confident in that my vag is beautiful how she is! In addition, positive body image accounts like yours and others have really helped me to zone out negative false and fake media of typical skinny/white/insta-fit chicks and accept myself for the whole of who I am!
H. - 23 years old