When I was younger I was ashamed of my vulva, mostly because of porn and a young (very rude / very hurt) ex boyfriend who said one very nasty comment... it stuck with me for a long time. After that, I always manipulated sexual situations to make sure the lights were turned off. I didn't let my own partners see me... not even after years. But as I grew a bit older and braver and began dating quality men, my self-love also began to grow. Seeing vulva art also made me realize how much variety there is, and how beautiful each one is.
One day, I grabbed a hand-held mirror and observed my own vulva. I was surprised at what I saw. It was as if I was afraid to look at it, but when I did, I saw so much beauty. The folds and shape resemble butterfly wings – Graceful, delicate, feminine folds. And the gradient of pink, mauve and golden skin is stunning! After gaining that appreciation and confidence, I took a very courageous leap of faith and allowed my partner to see me, fully... broad daylight, wide open! He told me how beautiful it is. And all of my partners since then have said exactly the same. They adore it!
It fills my heart to finally give myself the love and adoration my vulva deserved all along.
Thank you so much for your lovely art!