THERE IS NOT ONE WAY OF HOW VULVAS SHOULD LOOK

My husband of 10+ years stopped touching me over the years. I’ve never put that much thought into how attractive or unattractive my vulva looks before that. I developed insecurities because of how “pretty” vulva looks on the internet. Could this be the reason why he doesn’t find me attractive enough? I am grateful for all the courageous women sharing what they look like because now I know there is not one way of how vulvas should look.  

S. - 46 years old