My partner first noticed my vulvar melanosis. They looked like dark, patchy spots on my inner labia. Not raised or bumpy, just a different color than the surrounding skin. He was not grossed out, more worried for me that it could be something wrong. I saw my gynaecologist and she suggested we do a biopsy, to ensure that the spots were benign. They biopsy came back clear of anything that needed to be worried about. They are just my spots, and make my vulva unique. I've grown to appreciate them!